I was just going to town on my initial goal list and then I saw I got rejected for unemployment. I just hated the feeling I got. I HATE talking to people and I'm not good at standing up for myself. I have very little confidence and I know that the stuff my manager said was not okay and I've never left work crying before...that's how belittling his was (my manager). Obviously, I wish I didn't have to appeal it and talk to a judge, but I also know lessons are learned outside our comfort zones. I am going to try my hardest not to lose sleep over this and just tell my side of the story and hopefully they will side with me. I remember leaving work one day and saying that it's horrible that some people just have to stay working for people like my manager because they need the money. I need to think of this as potentially helping others down the road that have to work for managers like this. I can't let this and these sort of things through myself off my game and lose track of what's important. I don't want to spend all of my time and energy worrying about this and then being burnt out and crabby with my family. I just need to be prepared for the meeting and have everything written out and then hopefully I can relax. It's not until the 25th of March, but I'm sure I'll get everything written up shortly.
Deep breath in for 5 sec...hold for 5 sec...exhale for 5 sec and repeat :)
I NEED to remember what's really important in life!
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